A three dimensional framework based on affiliation, attention and affection

A framework of coping styles based on three vectors

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Vector (1,-1,1)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (1,-1,0)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (1,-1,-1)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (1,0,1)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (1,0,0)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (1,0,-1)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (1,1,1)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (1,1,0)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (1,1,-1)

Affiliation 1 selfish
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Selfish behavior does not display a desire to affiliate with others. Young children tend to grow out of this behavior and soon learn to share with others. Very few adults act purely Selfishly.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.

Vector (2,-1,1)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (2,-1,0)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (2,-1,-1)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (2,0,1)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (2,0,0)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (2,0,-1)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (2,1,1)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (2,1,0)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (2,1,-1)

Affiliation 2 me-first
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Me-First behavior includes a desire to affiliate with a select few. The person is willing to share generously with those select few, but avoids sharing with others. Children tend to grow out of this behavior by the time they about ten years old. Few adults think this is acceptable and even those who act this way pretend to do otherwise. Note that Me-First behavior retains characteristics from Selfish behavior.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.

Vector (3,-1,1)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (3,-1,0)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (3,-1,-1)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (3,0,1)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (3,0,0)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (3,0,-1)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (3,1,1)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (3,1,0)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (3,1,-1)

Affiliation 3 team-player
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Team-Player behavior is a typical teenage focus on peers. The person is willing to share generously with those who act and think like they do. People who act or think differently are kept outside the sharing circle. Many people live their adult lives focused on groups of people who are similar, and often project similarity onto those around them. Note that Team-Player behavior retains characteristics from Selfish and Me-First behaviors.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.

Vector (4,-1,1)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (4,-1,0)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (4,-1,-1)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (4,0,1)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (4,0,0)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (4,0,-1)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (4,1,1)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (4,1,0)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (4,1,-1)

Affiliation 4 role-player
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Role-Player behavior is an adult pattern seldom seen before age twenty. A role-player acts like a team-player within one team, and then acts like a team-player in some other team. Role-players accept greater diversity and can focus more upon their role than on their team. Note that Role-Player behaviors retain characteristics from earlier patterns.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.

Vector (5,-1,1)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (5,-1,0)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (5,-1,-1)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (5,0,1)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (5,0,0)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (5,0,-1)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (5,1,1)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (5,1,0)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (5,1,-1)

Affiliation 5 statesperson
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Statesperson like behavior is rare. A statesperson seeks the greatest good. A statesperson builds coalitions of teams without being pulled into any one team or any one role. People seldom reach this maturity before age thirty. Some only reach it much later in life. And most never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.

Vector (6,-1,1)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (6,-1,0)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (6,-1,-1)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (6,0,1)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (6,0,0)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (6,0,-1)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (6,1,1)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (6,1,0)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (6,1,-1)

Affiliation 6 humanitarian
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Humanitarian like behavior is very rare. A humanitarian considers all humanity as equals. Teams and coalitions are simply tools that help humanity. People seldom reach this maturity before age fifty. Most humanitarians only speak about their view of the world sporadically. Most people never learn to think beyond the limitation of role-player and team-player.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.

Vector (7,-1,1)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention -1 denying
Affection 1 hostile
Style 5 subjugated

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Subjugation. Subjugation is constructed with opposition and with denial. To subjugate, one must be willing to ignore the suffering of the one who is oppressed. Racism survives as a way to express hostility joined with the ability to ignore the facts. Movement in any direction will lead away from Subjugation. For example, notable leaders have learned to move from being subjugated to lead great movements for change by increasing everyone"s awareness and by turning hate into love.

Vector (7,-1,0)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention -1 denying
Affection 0 neutral
Style 6 denying

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Denying. Denying is an active suppression of information. Tranquility is neutral regarding the flow of information. Denial takes effort. Not seeing the suffering around you seems normal, but it is a skill that must be taught and practiced. It takes effort to then change from living with denial to learn to accept change. The pathway from Denying to Changing is to increase your awareness, transition through Tranquility and then continue to observe and report on reality.

Vector (7,-1,-1)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention -1 denying
Affection -1 love
Style 7 obligated

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is down and information is suppressed.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Obligated. Obligated is based on love, with a willingness to ignore pain. You are obligated to care for a child and endure nights without sleep. When others are aware of the obligation they can help you return to Tranquility by supplementing the effort. Temporary suffering is part of the human condition. Long term obligation, however, implies an imbalance in the relationship. Obligation is thus paired with Subjugation. One imposes Subjugation on another. One imposes Obligation on ones self.

Vector (7,0,1)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 1 hostile
Style 4 hostile

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Hostile. Hostile ranges from mild opposition through physical conflict. Many people focus their lives on being opposed. Many relationships are defined through opposition. The way to move forward from here is to increase the love and move towards tranquility. Starting from hostile and then increasing awareness leads to chaos. Rather than risk chaos, many relationships get redefined into subjugation.

Vector (7,0,0)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention 0 neutral
Affection 0 neutral
Style 1 tranquil

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Tranquil. Tranquility is a neutral condition. Tranquility does not require action to respond to information. Tranquility does not require action to suppress information. Tranquility does not require action to respond to oppression. And tranquility does not require action to respond to love. From Tranquility, it is easy to transition to any of the other states of begin. The best transition from Tranquility is to increase awareness, go to Changing; then increase love and transition to Aligned. People who first fall in love make that transition easy. They learn more about each other and increase the depth of their love.

Vector (7,0,-1)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention 0 neutral
Affection -1 love
Style 8 pampered

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is in the middle and little information is exchanged.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Pampered. Pampering is an expression of love that ignores the facts. If the relationship is built on love with an awareness of each other, then the two can be Aligned. If the relationship is built on love with a denial of the burden on one or the other, then one is Obligated. Pampering does not impose a burden and pampering does not involve awareness.

Vector (7,1,1)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention 1 aware
Affection 1 hostile
Style 3 chaotic

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the right and can be expressed with hostility.

Coping Style is Chaotic. The awareness of the oppressing hostility creates chaos. The direction away from chaos is to seek tranquility by reducing the hostility and increasing love. Political prisoners can use this strategy by learning to love their captors while recognizing that the suffering they feel is temporary. Families affected by addiction are held prisoners by the addiction and must pay less attention to the addicted one while loving them even more.

Vector (7,1,0)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention 1 aware
Affection 0 neutral
Style 2 changing

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is in the middle and the relationship is impartial.

Coping Style is Changing. Change is only comfortable when you are aware of the choices and feel safe to make the change. Learning is a favored form of change. Learning requires an understanding of the gap in knowledge, access to information and a non-threatening environment. Note that love and hate both stifle decision making and thus slow down the process of change.

Vector (7,1,-1)

Affiliation 7 ecologist
Attention 1 aware
Affection -1 love
Style 9 aligned

Affiliation: Ecologist like behavior is extremely rare. A real ecologists considers all life as unique and precious. To an ecologists, people are just one species among many. People seldom reach this maturity before age sixty. It is very difficult to find written words that express this point of view.

Attention is up and learning can occur.

Affection is to the left and can be expressed with love.

Coping Style is Aligned. It is difficult to achieve alignment (agreement) with anyone, even ones self. The best strategy is a discipline of seeking tranquility, increasing awareness to reach the point of changing and then increasing love to reach alignment.